Here's what nobody talks about:
When sex is uncomfortable for her—even if she doesn't say it—she starts avoiding it. Not because she doesn't love you. Not because she's not attracted to you.
Because her brain associates intimacy with discomfort, disappointment, or just going through the motions.
The "not tonight, honey" becomes routine. You stop initiating because the rejection hurts. The distance grows.
But when sex suddenly feels incredible?
When she's not bracing for discomfort? When she actually experiences the kind of pleasure she's been politely pretending to have for years?